Cheating....Unavoidable?!?!?!?.....Acceptable?!?!?!

I was having a conversation with some female family members today about infidelity. We all remember being told that the only thing that will make a man be faithful is God. Now, as a Christian, I do believe that God has the power to break ill-habits. I also believe that the reason men cheat has nothing to do with their wife or significant other. So, that being said, if God has to step in and stop a man from cheating, what about the men whose life is not totally devoted to God. Does it make them an acception to the rule? Are they allowed to cheat because God has not stopped them yet? Do they get a free pass until they give themselves back to Christ? Should we as women make an excuse for them? I can see it now......"Yeah he loves me even though he cheats on me. But that's ok because he's going to hell anyway"!!!! Just a thought.